What has been your favorite stone as of late? 

Bismuth crystal.  We don’t technically get to work with it because it’s too brittle, but we take natural pieces of it, slice it up and refine it, cast it in brass and then plate it with PVD titanium that is hit with a laser to create the same multicolored, psychedelic feel that the natural stone has.  I’m officially obsessed.

Where’s the most fascinating place you’ve found your raw materials?

Arusha, Tanzania.  Rajasthan in India is a close second.

If you could accessorize 3 runway shows this coming Fashion Week, whose would they be?

Peter Som, rag & bone, Chris Benz. All totally different but would be so fun.

Longsleeve Shirts by G Star
Boots by Frye

Clockwise from top middle (click photo above to buy):

Theory Caldin Jacket, $272.50

Barneys New York Two-Tone Skully Hat, $150

G-Star Tunnel Fil Shirt, $72

rag & bone  RB23X Jeans, $185

Frye Fulton Lace Up Boot, $182.99

Ernst Benz  GC10115 Watch, $4,600

Colombo Plaid Scarf, $179

John Varvatos V764 Sunglasses, $220

Photo: Vogue.com

Wintour and Vogue have reportedly been “instrumental” in coercing assembling the 22 designers, including Marc Jacobs, Diane von Furstenberg, Tory Burch, Alexander Wang, Tracy Reese, Joseph Altuzarra, Rachel Roy, Narciso Rodriguez, Rag & Bone and Jason Wu. Wary of alienating Republican voters from their brands, LVMH Moët Hennessy Louis Vuitton initially nixed their labels from participating in Runway to Win, but Marc Jacobs — of which LVMH owns a majority stake — designed his T-shirt anyway, “following pressure from the magazine,” according to WWD.

On the other hand, Donna Karan, also owned by LVMH, did not bow to Wintour and is therefore not participating in the fundraising effort. And therefore won’t be seen in Vogue anytime soon…Kidding!…Not really.

Runway to Win’s e-commerce site, runwaytowin.com, officially launches on Thursday, but Wintour’s re-election campaign is not stopping there. She will also co-host an Obama fundraiser with actress Scarlett Johansson in February — which I’m taking as a sign that ScarJo will be on the cover around that time. See, kids, and you thought fashion and politics had nothing in common. They both require a steely nerve, a willingness to compromise and the ability to turn a blind eye to corruption. The blatant abuse of power doesn’t hurt either. [WWD]

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From left, starting at top:

Leaves of Grass Udolfo Silk-Georgette Maxi Dress $730, net-a-porter.com

T-Bags Printed Satin Halterneck Maxi Dress $215, net-a-porter.com

Milly Rope-Print Stretch-Jersey Maxi Dress $420, net-a-porter.com

Winter Kate Damien Bias Cut Maxi Dress $339.90, my-wardrobe.com

Rag & Bone Stretch-Cotton Maxi Dress $195, net-a-porter.com

Halston Heritage Printed Maxi Dress $966, farfetch.com

Tibi Paisley Ruffle Maxi Dress $891, my-wardrobe.com

Thomas Wilde Peso Printed Silk-Chiffon Maxi Dress $1,110, net-a-porter.com

Theory Yellow Gold Tylie Intellect Maxi Dress $536.25, my-wardrobe.com

Don’t forget to follow @JessicaLapidos for all her festival updates!

From left to right, starting at top:

Topshop Blue Floral Print Longline Bralet $40, us.topshop.com

Risto Cropped Knit Tee $396, shoplesnouvelles.com

AllSaints Capri Cropped Top $110, us.allsaints.com

Sass & Bide Cropped Beaded Tee $235, glassworks-studios.com

Miu Miu Cropped Cashmere and Silk-Blend Cardigan $395, net-a-porter.com

Obesity and Speed Cropped Sweatshirt with Studs in Black $138, idontlikemondays.us

Wrkshp Ancient Star Tee $50, lespommettes.com

rag & bone Terry Crop Sweater $195, rag-bone.com

dELiA*s Printed Cropped Tank $34.50, delias.com

Motel Short Sleeve Crop Tee $18, houseoffraser.co.uk

Raquel Allegra Lace Top $260, jades24.com

Rebel Yell Unruly Cropped Tee $69, shopthetrendboutique.com

If you have questions about any of the above styles, tweet at me @CrystlMeatballs. And don’t forget to follow @JessicaLapidos for updates on her Bonnaroo adventure.

**With all of these guides, remember you will be wearing one of the daytime outfits to your destination. And, if you’re like us, you’ll probably be wearing most or all of the accessories too.

The Hamptons

The Bag
Bodhi “Weekender” Bag $648 – Sleek and luxe, just like your favorite string of Long Island beaches

The Accessories
Cutler & Gross Sunglasses $485

Alexander McQueen Mini Ivory Western Wicca Satchel $1,595

Malene Birger Ginau Mixed Bracelet Set $165

Aldo Stewarts Earrings $12

Belle Noel by Kim Kardashian 14KT Gold Stone and Pave Cocktail Ring $38

Marimekko Unikko Pink and Red Beach Towel $85

The Daytime Pieces
T by Alexander Wang Button Down Silk Tank $140

3.1 Phillip Lim Knot Front Pleated Short $295

T by Alexander Wang Silk Chiffon Long Sleeve Shirt $188

Mara Hoffman Ruffle Bustier Bikini $220

Rag & Bone Emma Short $143

Diamond by Julien Macdonald Dark Pink Palm Print Kaftan $52

Topshop Rope Tie Leg Sandals $75

The Nighttime Pieces
Diane Von Furstenberg Bicolour Wrap Dress $535

Alice + Olivia Grace Belted Stretch-Silk Dress $330

Lanvin Ankle Strap Pumps $1,050

The Catskills

The Bag
Fossil Vintage Reissue Weekender $218 – Rustic and bohemian, this bag will hold all your mountainside lake looks

The Accessories
Barbara Bui Floyd Mini Fringe Bag $595

Alexander McQueen Head Skull Necklace $595

Alexis Bittar Gold Ombre Bracelet $270

Rebecca Norman Rocky Ring $135

Linda Farrow Retro Style Sunglasses $425

The Daytime Pieces
Damir Doma Cropped Tank Top $230

Love Sam Lace Top $99

Topshop Green Flippy Skirt $55

Undrest Liberty-Print Cotton Swimsuit $275

Fly London YLVA Platform Sandal $185

Victoria’s Secret Maxi Dress $48

The Nighttime Pieces
Miss Selfridge Orange Twill Crop Jacket $73

AllSaints Aztec Dress $460

Camilla and Marc Blind Call Leopard Frock $705

Yves Saint Laurent Tribute 105 $1,395

Cape Cod

The Bag
Buti Pebbled Calf Leather Weekender Travel Bag $540 – The perfect blue to match the skies of this classic, nautical vacation destination

The Accessories
Robindira Unsworth 22k Gold Hammered Hoops $144

Cynthia Rowley Denim Frame Heart Shoulder Bag $130

Larkspur & Hawk Emma Ring $850

Rag & Bone Short Brim Beach Hat $135

Kenneth Jay Lane Starfish Gold-Tone Bangle $84

Selima Optique Andy Round-Frame Acetate Sunglasses $325

The Daytime Pieces
H! by Henry Holland Beige Cropped Jersey Blouse $26

Rebecca Minkoff Hali Cut-Out Rose Print Shorts $228

Marc Jacobs Floral-Print Silk Tank $198

Karen Walker Belted Swing Skirt $180

Topshop Red & White Stripe Bandeau Cover Up $52

D&G Reversible Halterneck Bikini $300

Keds Champion Austin $50

The Nighttime Pieces
Alice + Olivia Cody Color Block Dress $368

Diane Von Furstenberg Mini Maize Silk Pleated Dress $695

Schutz Laser-Cut Platform $210

What is an absolute must-have for your Memorial Day getaway?

The Hamptons is going to be swarming with the rich and fabulous. It is important that you always look posh and put together even if you’re getting plastered in the middle of the day. I recommend this Ben Minkoff weekender. It’s simple, durable, and can hold a champagne bottle or two. (And yes I know from experience.) One of your essentials should include a Ralph Lauren polo. (The staple of the prep wardrobe) An Orlebar Brown bathing suit is the way to go shorts wise. (Even if you’re not swimming you can wear these as shorts all day and look stylish.) Finally you’ll need a pair of  Sperry boat shoes. (Duh!) Don’t forget to bring a blazer just in case and daddy’s credit card.

The Jersey Shore is always a hot spot during the summer months and Memorial Day weekend is probably one of the craziest times it gets. As a Jersey native I have to say that  people were going to down the shore (As we Jerseyans put it) before Snooki and The Situation took over with a camera crew. That being said a Quiksilver duffle is what you want to pack. It can take a beating and be fulled to over capacity with all your weekend needs. While you’re at the beach or walking on the boardwalk these American Eagle shorts have both fashion and function without calling negative attention to whoever is wearing them. Speaking of the boardwalk you can stroll comfortably down it in these Ugg sandals. Lastly you’ll need something nice to impress at the club and an Armani Exchange dress shirt will do the trick. Just make sure you’re tan and party ready.

Fire Island is a major gay destination on the East Coast if you didn’t know. The island is known for it’s nonstop parties and debauchery. If you go this Rag & Bone bag says “I’m here, I’m queer, & I have taste: Get Used To It!”  I recommend packing light since it seems that many of the people running around are not in that much clothes. That’s why this Baskit trunk is totally appropriate. There are a lot of outdoor activities so go for a pack of American Apparel tanks so you have something light and simple that can transition from day to night. Finally I recommend these GAP flip flops:they’re inexpensive, versatile and perfect for a beach day. Remember to leave your heavy layers and inhibitions behind.

1. Alexander McQueen Flesh/Ivory Lace Knuckle Box Clutch $2,295, alexandermcqueen.com

2. Miu Miu Ornamental Neckline Dress $1,165, mytheresa.com

3. Orla Kiely Solid Color Sunglasses $235, orlakiely.com

4. Alexander Wang Jade Sting Ray Clutch $795, lagarconne.com

5. D&G ‘Charmonix’ Multifunction Watch $185, nordstrom.com

6. Calypso St. Barth Popover Tunic $95, calypsostbarth.com

7. Rag & Bone Isington Striped Mesh Skirt $350, net-a-porter.com

8. Ann Demeulemeester Belt $205, thecorner.com

9. Tarina Tarantino Silk Dahlia Anywhere Clip $70, tarinatarantino.com

10. Ralph Lauren White Stretch Denim Jeans $500, stylebop.com

11. Nicholas Kirkwood Cutout Ankle Boot $1,185, nordstrom.com

12. Low Luv by Erin Wasson Rough Crystal Cocktail Ring $210, my-wardrobe.com

13. Topshop Kelsey Woven Lace-Up Shoes $100, us.topshop.com

14. Dean Harris Rainbow Cabochon Vine Earrings $4,725, barneys.com

15. Closed Off White Zip Detail Pants $305, stylebop.com

1. Long and coral, slightly full and slimming. Topshop

2. Peach and pleated. Miu Miu

3. Leaves? Water? Stripes? The bright organic geometrics flow. Rag & Bone

4. Blinding acid, in ladylike form. Christopher Kane

5. Terrestrial pop. Cacharel

6. Makes me want to salsa in the south of France. Yves Saint Laurent

7. Layered chiffon prints gather depth. Timo Weiland

8. Techno tribal. Fair+True

9. Field of poppies wakes me up. Jane Norman

10. Knife pleats cut metallic. House of Holland

Credit: Stylescoop.co.za

1. Invest in a good raincoat. There is nothing worse than arriving somewhere feeling cold, damp and gloomy. A good raincoat will keep you dry and never go out of style. Plus, they last for years if you take good care of them.

Clockwise from top left:
- Emma Cook duffle raincoat $400 – net-a-porter.com

- Diane von Furstenberg Zigzag cotton-blend raincoat $282 – theoutnet.com

- Jil Sander raincoat with tie waist $705 – brownsfashion.com

- Smythe Asymmetric hooded raincoat $385 – brownsfashion.com

- Rag & Bone Bleecker trench $595 – lagarconne.com

- Vivienne Westwood raincoat $1,065 – viviennewestwood.co.uk

- H&M white raincoat – hm.com

2. Don’t forget your rain boots. Even if you change into different shoes, waterproof wellies are a must for any walking commute. But these styles are so cute, you might not want to make the switch.

Clockwise from top:
- Sperry Top-Sider Sadie rain boot $79.95 – endless.com

- Fessura rain boot $119.95 – endless.com

- Cole Haan Air Melanie knee-high rain boot $128 – endless.com

- Calvin Klein Ava rain boot $119 – calvinklein.com

- Burberry haymarket splash rain boot $225 – zappos.com

- Roxy drizzle rain boots $54 – roxy.com

- Pour la Victoire studded ‘Ted’ rubber rain boots $162.99 – bluefly.com

- Polo Ralph Lauren Rossalyn II Rain Boots $64.99 – finishline.com

- Target leopard fade rain boots $22.49 – target.com

- Loeffler Randall LR rain bootie $165 – zappos.com

3. Ditch your boring, black umbrella. Would it be out of line to say these umbrellas may make you wish for rain? Maybe that’s going too far, but these designs are both adorable and made to last. Trash that bodega umbrella if you haven’t already and buy something you’ll enjoy opening.

Clockwise from top left:
- Marc by Marc Jacobs jumbled birds umbrella $48 – zappos.com

- Lulu Guinness birdcage umbrella $52 – luluguinness.com

- ModCloth raindrops on railways umbrella $30 – modcloth.com

- Kate Spade umbrella $55 – katespade.com

- Tiffany butterfly umbrella $46 – umbrellaheaven.com

4. De-frizz your hair. Humidity will leave your locks in shambles no matter what the temperature may be. These products will work with your hair on those down-pour days to keep it looking smooth, light and frizz-free.

From left:
- Tigi Bed Head Some Like It Hot heat and humidity resistant serum $20 – yesstyle.com

- Frederic Fekkai Marine Summer Hair Zero-Humidity Frizz Control $20 – yesstyle.com

- John Frieda Frizz-Ease original hair serum $7.64 – ulta.com

- ghd Obedience Cream for Frizz-Free Styling $18 – neimanmarcus.com

- Redken Fresh Curls Curl Boost Anti-Frizz Scrunching Spray Gel $38 – yesstyle.com

- Living Proof Wave Shaping, Curl Defining No Frizz Styling Spray $95 – sephora.com

5. Throw a hat on that frizz. Forgot to de-frizz? No problem! These spring hats are so fresh, they’re much more than bad hair day remedies. From classic straw to flower appliques, there is something for everyone here.

Clockwise from top:
- ASOS PREMIUM flower detail hat $44.83 – asos.com

- Albertus Swanepoel Pierre fedora $415 – barneys.com

- Topshop traditional boater $40 – topshop.com

- Missoni Zigzag crochet-knit sunhat $495 – net-a-porter.com

- Marc Jacobs Chapeau hat $442 – colette.fr

- Christian Dior 1950s vintage floral hat $450 – 1stdibs.com

- Zara two-tone wide brim hat with bow $29.90 – zara.com

6. Don’t let mean Mother Nature steal your sunshine. It might be damp and dreary, but you can brighten your day with a bold piece or two. Just looking at these colors will put you on a sandy beach.

From top to bottom, starting from the left column:
-D&G quilted crossbody bag $515 – zappos.com

- Zara fashion city bag with flap $149 – zara.com

- Adidas concord round sleek night shoes $70 – adidas.com

- Moschino ruched linen-blend skirt $860 – net-a-porter.com

- Acne high-rise skinny jeans $275 – net-a-porter.com

- Miss Selfridge belted drape bubble dress $65 – missselfridge.com

- Versace Polka-dot cotton-blend micro shorts $595 – net-a-porter.com

- ASOS MARKY Patent Leather Traditional Brogues $62.76 – asos.com

- Lanvin one-shoulder top $1,260 – barneys.com

- Jil Sander stretch-cotton slim-leg pants $595 – net-a-porter.com

- ASOS leather saddle bag $53.79 – asos.com

- H&M bow flats – hm.com

- ModCloth Perfect Photo Op Flat in Wingtip $102.99 – modcloth.com

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Barneys fashion director Julie Gilhart said:

“We never thought of Co-Op as a place where you find secondary collections. It’s a place where you find something different.”

Truer words have never been spoken. If you want to snag any of these limited edition items, head to Barney’s Co-Op ASAP.

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For some unfathomable reason, there hasn’t been an inordinate amount of ZOMFG-ery and internet freakouts over the recent opening of Rag & Bone’s online store.  Nevertheless, it’s here and it’s about time.  Finally joining other late-arrivals like Band of Outsiders and Patrik Ervell, now everyone can get a piece of the CFDA-award winning brand’s goods.

Now while this development may piss off fashionista’s hung up on exclusivity, it bodes well for those across the country and world who don’t have the means or the driver’s license to head to bastions of fashion.  Good on ya, R&B.  If only it hadn’t taken so damn long.  And had men’s clothing.  Curses!

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First off, there are a few styles and materials that you’re going to have to give the kiss of death to.  It might be sad, it might get uncomfortable, but you can all reconcile once the cooler months roll through.  First off, forget skinny pants.  Secondly, say goodbye to regular denim.  And most importantly, no matter how tempting, avoid any and all combinations of the two.

It gets hot enough with your skin on so why would you add what ostensibly amounts to another layer of heavier, less breathable flesh?  The only possible reasons: you’re a masochist and/or you really like the ‘just peed myself’ look that sweaty pants bring.

So what pants to wear, then, without looking like you’re a big fan of Jnco jeans?  There’s a world of options out there, friends!  And many of them are quite cost friendly.  Let’s take a quick look at three that’ll do you some good.

1. Dockers Ankle Chino

Dockers?  Yes, Dockers.  The brand’s been making a major comeback of late with tons of collaborations, new cuts and fits, and a plethora of new colors.  These chinos are a perfect example.  Not too slim, coming in six different colorways, and at a mucho-friendly price of $54.  Lord knows you’re gonna be cuffing these bad boys, as the New York Times told us a few years late, so the fact that they’re a little short is just icing on the khaki cake.

2. Topman Blue Chambray Crop Chinos

Chambray is one of the go-to fabrics for summerwear due to how lightweight it is and it’s also a nice alternative to denim.  These pants share many of the same characteristics of the aforementioned Dockers but with a few more details here and there, and a little dressier look.  At $80, you’re looking at a nicely cut, lightweight pant similar to to this pair by Rag & Bone.  With the two bills you save, why not treat yourself to an air conditioner?  A hundred gallons of ice cream?  A trip to Antarctica.

3. Gant Rugger Melange Chinos/Velour Baggy Chinos

(L-Gant, R-Velour)

And it’s not just the oh-so-dreaded fast fashion brands that are putting out cost-effective wares.  Check out these similarly priced offerings from Gant and Velour.  Both are slim, lightweight, and most importantly a light color to bounce the sun off instead of inviting the heat in.  Best of all, the light blue is perfect to go along with the vibrance of summer wherever you may be.

So there you have it!  Keep the denim handy for when September rolls around, mind your tweeds and wools so you can do your best Mad Men impression (I guess?) when the time comes, but for now, for the sake of comfort, try these on for size.  And maybe send a couple bucks thisaway with what you would’ve otherwise paid.  No?  OK.

The movie follows Kitano as a Japanese gangster who wants out.  His bosses, however, want him to pull one last job out in Okinawa.  As with most last jobs, things go horribly awry leading Kitano and his team to hide out on the beach.  Once there, a lot of non-action happens, but much like Wong Kar-Wai does, Kitano manages to make this non-action incredibly beautiful.

Like every Film Friday entry, there are suits galore.  And like with most Film Fridays, it’s all about the fit and all about the details.  Even in the noir darkness, one can see that this plain blue blazer fits Kitano well.  And his colleague’s jacket, while it has gigantic lapels, is the perfect shade of grey for Spring or Summer, much like this Marc Jacobs blazer or these from Rag & Bone and Jil Sander.

Somehow, certain characters in the film manage to even make the most atrocious pieces look presentable if not downright stylish.  Check out this minor character’s tie, reminiscent of a collaboration between Beauty & Youth of Japan and The Hillside of New York.

Along with the floral ties are plenty of floral tops.  Again, the connotations of floral shirts (think Jimmy Buffett) are not exactly flattering, but the colors and patterns used make shirts like the ones above work.  Take notes, old white men traveling in Hawaii.  And the kid’s t-shirt in the first pic?  Not too different from the type of stuff Japanese brand 45rpm is doing.

There’s also a little bit of the weird here and there (if the floral tie didn’t do it for you).  Check out the pants on the somber gent to the left, oddly similar to this offering by the good folks at Oak.

Also, check out the other somber guy on the left, Mr. Short But Threatening, rocking a chalk-stripe suit not unlike this from Dolce & Gabbana or a reverse version of this Vivienne Westwood blazer.

And lest we forget about the ladies (a definite no-no), some more floral pieces.  The above like any number of tops you’ll see floating around this summer, the dress like prettier, more vibrant versions of these by Jean Paul Gaultier and Tsumori Chisato.

And, in a nutshell, there’s the style of Sonatine.  Like any previous Film Friday editions, of course not everyone will agree with this film’s inclusion as a movie with sartorial worth.  In fact, many will probably share the same opinion as Kitano’s character above.  The fact remains, though, that the characters in this film pull off both traditional and more daring pieces with ease and that makes it worth any Film Friday.

Soon you’ll be able to get your Rag & Bone fix without leaving the isolating comfort of your laptop keyboard. Word on the blogosphere streets is that the label will soon launch an e-commerce sight. I’ll start saving now so  I can finally be able to rock this tweed cape.

I’m 5’2” and I’ve always considered myself a shopping whore. I could spend all day looking for new shoes and clothes. When I was a little girl, I couldn’t wait to grow up and have a boyfriend to dress up for. Well, now I’m all grown up but I’m boyfriendless. I go on a crazy amount of dates, so fortunately for me, I live in awesome dresses and even better shoes.

As part of my job, I go on dates with all different types of men. I’ve met some nice guys, arrogant ones, tall men, and of course, short ones. Being that I’m quite tiny myself, I don’t mind dating men who are only a little bit taller than me. Luckily, the way men come in all different shapes and sizes, so do shoes and dresses.

The Shoes

The first time I went on a date with a man who was 5’8”, I had no idea what to wear. I panicked for a few minutes and then calmed myself down. All of my shoes are at least 5 inches tall and I thought it might make my date feel bad if I was almost his height. So, I did a little research and found a few pairs of not so high heels.

My shoe obsession of the moment happens to be a pair of turquoise flat sandals from Elizabeth and James Blaze Flat Thongs.

They’re colorful and simple. Turquoise goes with everything, including short men, which is why these shoes rock. So, if you’re going on a date with a man who’s almost as tall as you, I suggest wearing these turquoise beauties.

They’re $175 at Shopbop.com

If you’re like Victoria Beckham and you aren’t comfortable in totally flat shoes, opt for a heel, but a very low heel. This gives you the chance to still feel sexy, while making sure not to tower over your date. I know that women feel sexier when they have on a pair of extremely high heels. But if your date is a cutie, give him a chance to feel like a real man. Let him appear tall.

In order to do that, I recommend my newest shoe crush. These Sergio Rossi stilettos are sexy and on sale!  (Grab them on Shopbop.com for only $455)

They’re also feminine and very unique. So when your date takes you to an over crowded bar, the girl sitting next to you won’t be wearing the same shoes.

Now that you have the shoes covered, you just have to figure out what to wear with them. I’m sure your date would love it if you arrived naked, but that’s not appropriate so I recommend wearing a dress.

THE DRESS

I’m a native New Yorker so I live in black. Head to toe I’m usually dressed in black, even down to my bra and underwear. Black is sexy, slimming, and elegant. One dress I die for is by Rag & Bone. It’s tight and short so it works perfectly with flats. $395 on Shopbop.com.

I’m a huge fan of mini dresses, but if you wear them with high heels, you can look a little slutty. That’s why whenever I go out with a short man, I put on a really little dress and embrace a comfy pair of flats.

However, not everyone likes blatantly sexy clothing. So, if tight and body hugging dresses aren’t your thing, I recommend wearing a flirty, fun dress on a date. They’re still sexy, but in a more understated way. Rebecca Taylor makes great dresses that are super romantic. This one looks good on everyone and it’s even a fun color. Available on Shopbop.com for $275.

I bet you had no idea that a whole new wardrobe can come out of dating a short man.

Instead of being afraid of dating someone who might be the same height as you, go out and buy a flats-appropriate dress and matching pair of shoes. You might enjoy the date. And even if you don’t, at least you scored a few new items for the summer.

For more from Carly Spindel check out Carly’s Dating Chronicles.

Rag & bone is expanding its footwear division. Part of the expansion includes a collaborating with Timberland on a line of boots for fall.

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Last night, The Council of Fashion Designers of America announced the nominations for the 2010 CFDA Fashion Awards. The winners will be announced at the annual gala on June 7 at Alice Tully Hall at Lincoln Center.

The Womenswear Designer of the Yearnominees are: Alexander Wang, Marc Jacobs, Donna Karen

The Menswear Designer of the Year nominees are: Michael Bastian, Tom Ford, and David Neville & Marcus Wainwright for Rag & Bone.

For Accessory Designer of the Year Award the nominees are: Alexis Bittar, Lazaro Hernandez & Jack McCollough for Proenza Schouler, and Marc Jacobs.

The Swarovski Award for Womenswear: Joseph Altuzarra, Prabal Gurung, and Jason Wu

The  Swarovski Award for Menswear: Richard Chai, Patrik Ervell, and Simon Spurr.

For Swarovski Award for Accessory Design: Eddie Borgo, Dana Lorenz, and Alexander Wang.

The Geoffrey Beene Lifetime Achievement Award will be presented to Michael Kors.

The CFDA Board of Directors chose to honor Alexander McQueen with their Special Tribute Award.

Eugenia Sheppard Award – Kim Hastreiter, Paper Magazine

International Award – Christopher Bailey for Burberry

Fashion Icon Award – Iman

Eleanor Lambert Award – Tonne Goodman, Vogue

This untitled set on Polyvore, by Jujubabyy28, definitely caught my eye. Not just for its outfit, but the artistic composition of the set. My favorite piece from it is the Rag & Bone metallic oxfords.

You can see this set & many more by Jujubabyy28 right here:

Gossip Girl star Jessica Szohr is on the cover of Lucky’s April issue. Check out some quotes from the issue after the jump.

On being inspired by Old Hollywood: “The 1950 film All About Eve shows classic Old Hollywood, when women put so much detail into getting ready.”

On her fashion evolution: “I’m learning more and more about clothes and designers from being a part of Gossip Girl and living in New York,” the 25-year-old said. “In fittings now, I’m like, ‘I love that Diane von Furstenberg skirt or this Rag & Bone jacket,’ whereas before, I wouldn’t have recognized the labels.”

On her love of menswear: “At Confederacy in L.A., it’s hard to know where to begin: It has great coffee-table books, an incredible shoe collection, and a men’s section that I shop in for myself.”

For Jessica’s shopping list, click here.

For a giveaway of her cover look worth nearly $1000, click here.

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Fall 2010 marked a pivotal collection for Rag & Bone designers Marcus Wainwright and David Neville. Whereas previous collections showcased a girl with androgynous tendencies, the Rag & Bone Fall 2010 collection was really the first strictly womenswear line we’ve seen from the designers. Gathering inspiration from 1920s Everest expeditions, Wainwright and Neville brought us a modernized vintage collection with overwhelming utility pieces. From tweed jackets to sweater dresses and plaid ponchos to Rag & Bone’s atypical oversized knit scarf, the collection screams Rag & Bone without being overly masculine for a change.

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Rag and Bone literally took a picture of me and created this collection. I LOVE THIS SO VERY HARD. I’ve never gotten a wallet boner before from a collection, but I need to buy everything that suggests I own everything in this collection. Great, amazing stuff. So excited for what’s coming from menswear in the fall of 2010. Greens and browns and camo. Amazing. Just so perfect.

Rag & Bone is slated to launch three companion collections aimed to provide simple, basic staple items to wardrobes. Rag & Bone/JEAN, Rag & Bone/KNIT and Rag & Bone/SHIRT are just three of the many expected companion collections to provide shoppers with a variety of styles, lengths and colors in their closets. According to designer David Neville, these companion collections “[give] [Rag & Bone] room to be more experimental and exuberant on the runway.” Really looking forward to this!

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You don’t know temptation until you live a mere four blocks from the Christopher Street Rag & Bone flagship store. I stop in to browse (and cry) nearly every week, a little too hopeful for Rag & Bone’s nonexistent sales. I came across this beauty the last time I peeked my head in, and I really can’t get it off my mind. Every girl should have a basic black or dark navy blue blazer in their wardrobe at this point, but if you’re picky like I am, this incredible Cheviot Jacket might just tickle your fancy. Not only do I love the double-breasting and the lapels, I can’t get over the gorgeous contrast between the twill suiting and the woven collar. Need a little more coaxing? Well, it’s 98% wool and has lining for all those chilly New York days. Oh Santa…

Get it at: La Garconne

Tell me, what could be better than scoring 15% off all Rag & Bone purchases at the Zoë DUMBO location boutique? Hmm, well probably the fact that you’ll not only save money, but you’ll get to meet Rag & Bone’s own Marcus Wainright and David Neville, enter to win some Zoë giveaways and sip on a cocktail or two. Best of all worlds if you ask me!

WHEN: October 28, from 6:00PM – 9:00PM

WHERE: Zoë: 68 Washington Street near Front Street (DUMBO)

Thanks Refinery 29!

The funny part is, I wasn’t the first person who stopped by the store inquiring about the chainmail. Hmm, maybe this is an indication that these pieces SHOULD be reproduced and sold! Next season? Please.

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GALLERY: RUNWAY RUNDOWN: Rag & Bone Spring 2010

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Georgina made it to Rag & Bone to celebrate the designers announcement of guest designer Jessica Stam. She look absolutely delicious. Wish I was there to sneak up behind here and try to touch her hair. Yes, it’s creepy, but that’s why I’m not invited to much…

QUICKLINK: Michelle Trachtenberg @ Rag & Bone event

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GALLERY: RUNWAY RUNDOWN: Rag & Bone Resort 2010

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The Who: Save Fashion – Men’s Week

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